June 2013
candystaples replied to your post: also wow my entire family went in…
OH MY -GOD- WHAT THE HELL IS THAT
/that/ is someone trying to drive a bmw down my street somewhere between 7-10 hours ago
also wow my entire family went into panic mode today because of the rain
literally started preparing for sandy 2.0

i am totally ready to not live this close to the water
candystaples replied to your post: Read More →Read More Now!
THAT SOUNDS GREAT. why do photos of the stage always make you look much farther away than you actually were. also ~that setlist~
yes aaaah i was just. it was SO GOOD! and i don’t know? i mean i took a picture of the stage from my phone too and it still looked further. and let’s not even talk about videos. weird.
princessfreakazoid reblogged your photoset
NOBODY TOLD ME SUFJAN STEVENS WAS THIS CUTE
well
now u know
May 2013
- your limitations are real and don’t make you worthless no matter how low they are or how high you want them to be
- it’s okay to want your limitations to be higher but
- you and your mental/emotional/physical health are important
- taking time off from responsibilities and obligations so you can look after yourself does not make you a bad person
- doing nothing all day but things you like & make you happy doesn’t mean you’re lazy or shirking your work
- it’s a form of self care
- you are worth looking after
- you are worth looking after
- you are fucking worth looking after
solidarity with survivors whose narratives are inconvenient
solidarity with survivors who do not elicit pathos or sympathy
solidarity with survivors who nobody rushes to protect
solidarity with survivors who have grown teeth and fangs
solidarity with survivors who do not want you to fucking touch them ever
solidarity with survivors whose boundaries are like guillotines
solidarity with survivors who do not want to tell their stories
solidarity with survivors who live alone
solidarity with survivors who choose to hide their vulnerabilities rather than share them
I am over this confessional culture, where the more vulnerable you make yourself the more credibility you are considered to have, and concepts of “community” that have no significance to my life.
This is why there are and will continue to be less and less personal writings on this blog, less focus on the things that I feel and think and more focus on the things that I do. But this is something that I wanted to say.
Solidarity with survivors who change the way the live to cope
Solidarity with survivors who cut ties and burn bridges with whoever
Solidarity with survivors that want to smash everything
relevant now, relevant always
i am very proud of you for waking up today. you are very brave. existing can be hard sometimes and that is okay. i am proud of you even if all you did today was exist. i am proud of you for existing.

